The Complex Joy of Celebrating from the Outside 🌍

Happy July 4th, everyone!

Today marks a massive milestone—the USA’s 250th birthday. As a Black American, holidays like this always come with a bit of complexity. Just a few weeks ago, many of us gathered for Juneteenth cookouts, honoring the true day of freedom for our ancestors who were still enslaved back in 1776. Holding space for both of these histories is part of our unique journey.

But there is also a fascinating shift that happens when you look at home from the outside.

One year ago today, I was in Guadalajara, Mexico, and I was in a lot of physical pain, actively adjusting to a major mobility challenge after an injury a couple of weeks prior. However, my son and I were determined to find some comfort food. We searched high and low across the city for some authentic barbecue ribs. It was a hilarious, beautiful mission, and being a "foreigner" in Mexico made us feel more connected to our identity back home.

Whether you are surrounded by family today, raising a glass from a café half a world away, or navigating your own unexpected physical or life transitions. You don't need a crowded room to celebrate how far you’ve come. Sometimes the most profound gratitude is found when you're looking out an unfamiliar window, honoring your history, and realizing you are stronger than you ever gave yourself credit for.

To the 8 (and counting!) members in our community:

How are you marking today?

Are you tapping into that solo travel lifestyle?

Have you found creative ways to bring a piece of home to where you are?

Let’s share in the comments!

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The Complex Joy of Celebrating from the Outside 🌍