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Survivor’s Flashbacks — a body perspective
Survivor’s Flashbacks — a body perspective
For a long time, I didn’t have language for what was happening to me.
I just knew that sometimes my body would react before my mind had a say.
I’ve learned that what many of us call flashbacks aren’t about remembering the past.
They’re about the body responding to something that once felt overwhelming.
The body doesn’t experience time the way the mind does.
When something in the present echoes the past—even quietly—the nervous system can respond as if it’s happening again.
Not because something is wrong.
But because the body learned how to survive.
How this showed up for me
My flashbacks weren’t always visual. Often they were:
- a sudden drop into anxiety or emptiness
- a feeling of leaving my body or the room
- tightness in my chest, throat, or belly
- a strong urge to run, hide, or go numb
There wasn’t always a story attached.
The body was speaking first.
Grounding — meeting the body where it is
What I’ve learned is that grounding isn’t about forcing myself to calm down.
It’s about helping my body orient to now.
In those moments, I return to sensation:
- feeling my feet make contact with the floor
- noticing the support beneath me
- placing a hand on my body and reminding it, gently:I’m here. I’m safe right now.
Sometimes I name what I can see or feel.
Sometimes I just stay with one steady sensation.
The body doesn’t need explanations.
It needs presence.
Building capacity — the deeper work
Over time, I learned that the work isn’t only what we do during a flashback.
It’s how we build capacity between them.
Capacity is the ability to stay with sensation without becoming overwhelmed.
I built mine slowly by:
- practicing grounding when I was already regulated
- noticing my body in small, everyday moments
- resting when my system signaled overload
- learning the early cues before overwhelm took hold
As my capacity grew, my flashbacks softened.
They became shorter. Less intense. Easier to come back from.
Not because I controlled them—but because my body learned it didn’t have to work so hard anymore.
What I want you to know
Flashbacks are not signs of failure.
They are signs of a body that learned how to protect you.
With time, gentleness, and support, the body can learn something new:
that this moment is different.
Nothing is wrong with you.
Your system is wise—and it can be met with care
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Survivor’s Flashbacks — a body perspective
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