For years, I measured my worth by outcomes.
My self-worth was tied to results.
If I wasn’t hitting the mark, shame would creep in.
It became a rollercoaster;
The goalposts kept moving, and it was never enough.
I was trying to control the uncontrollables.
And it was killing my peace.
But the real shift came when I stopped chasing results
and started becoming the man who produces them.
The outcome isn’t the mission.
Becoming the man is.
I focused on my inputs;
Discipline. Integrity. Faith.
And the results started to follow.
Not because I forced them;
but because I aligned with them.
Focus on the being.
Honor the doing.
Let the results follow.