This is not about being exclusive.
This is about making the room make sense.
๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฐ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ:
- the right people feel seen
- the wrong people self-select out
- your community stays high-signal
๐ฅ๐๐น๐ฒ (๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐)
Write this in ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ๐, not demographics.
Not โfor women in their 30s.โ
More like โfor people who will actually try the thing and report back.โ
๐๐
๐ฎ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐๐ (๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ)
This community is for people whoโฆ
- want ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ
- ask for help with context (not vague drive-by questions)
- share progress (even if itโs messy)
This community is not for people whoโฆ
- only drop links / self-promote
- argue for their limitations
- want to be passive consumers forever
๐๐
๐ฎ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐ (๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ป๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐)
Fitness community:
For:
- beginners who will follow the plan 3x/week
- people who post check-ins and ask for form help
- members who celebrate othersโ progress
Not for:
- people who want a magic plan but wonโt do the basics
- anyone who shames othersโ bodies or progress
Career community:
For:
- people applying to jobs who will ship applications weekly
- members who give thoughtful feedback on resumes/interviews
- people who share wins + lessons learned
Not for:
- spammy recruiters or pitch-only behavior
- people who refuse to take action but want constant reassurance
Hobby / creative community:
For:
- makers who share drafts + learn in public
- members who give kind, specific critique
- people who do small challenges
Not for:
- harsh critique / dunking
- AI/automation spam (unless itโs explicitly allowed)
๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ป
Comment with:
- 3 โForโ bullets
- 2 โNot forโ bullets
Optional: add one line that sets the vibe:
- In here, we do ___.
- In here, we donโt do ___.
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