Something no one talks about when you start holding circles…
It’s not your job to fix anyone.
When people first begin holding space, they often feel responsible for how everyone is feeling in the room.
Someone cries? You feel like you should help.
Someone goes quiet? You feel like you should check in.
Someone looks uncomfortable? You feel like you should change something.
But real space holding isn’t about rescuing people.
It’s about creating a space strong enough that people can sit with themselves safely.
That’s where the magic actually happens ✨
Your role is to:
– hold the structure
– keep the energy steady
– stay grounded
– stay present
Not solve. The moment you stop trying to “do something” for everyone in the room…
your circles become deeper
your confidence grows
and people begin to trust the space more.
Because they can feel you’re not performing.
You’re holding. And trust me on this one —
people can tell the difference immediately 💛