Oct '25 • General discussion
The Truth About "We" to "Me" That Nobody Tells You
Transitioning from "We" to "Me" was the hardest part of my journey.
Widowhood reshaped me, but it also showed me a strength I didn't know I had. Every tear. Every "Why God?" Every "Why me?" moment became fuel for my passion and purpose.
Here's what I wish someone had told me:
You don't lose yourself in grief—you shed old versions and discover new ones.
For years, I was Rudy's wife, a partner in every decision, part of a team. When he passed, I had to learn:
- How to make decisions alone (terrifying at first)
- How to be both mother AND father to four kids
- How to manage finances solo after years of partnership
- How to dream again when my original dreams died with him
But here's the gift hidden in that pain: I found Angelina again.
Not the woman I was before marriage. Not just the widow. But a new version—stronger, clearer, more purposeful. A woman who could turn Fortune 50 project management skills into life transformation frameworks. A woman who could launch a consulting firm, build a real estate portfolio, write a book, and turn pain into something beautiful.
The journey has been life-changing.
To anyone on this path: You are stronger than you think. The pain you're feeling? It's not just breaking you—it's also revealing who you're meant to become. 💪
Question for you: What's ONE thing you've discovered about yourself through a difficult transition?
#FromWeToMe #WidowhoodJourney #StrengthInGrief #TransformationCoaching
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