Sep 11 • Things To Ponder
Would you follow you?
Not the version at work. That guy's solid. People bring him problems. He handles it.
I mean the one nobody sees. The one who said 5am and got up at 6:40. Who said "starting Monday" three Mondays ago. Who promised his wife he'd stop bringing work to the dinner table and brought it again last night.
Run the last 30 days. Not your intentions — your evidence.
Here's the part that should land: if a boss made you the promises you make yourself, and broke them the way you break them, you'd have quit that job a long time ago. You wouldn't call him a bad guy. You'd just stop believing a word he said.
That's exactly what your own head has done. It stopped believing you.
And this is where men want to make it about discipline or motivation. It's not. You've been leading everybody but yourself — the team, the kids, the household — and the one man you never held to the standard is the one setting it.
Lead yourself first if you want others to follow.
So answer it straight:
Would you follow you right now — yes or no? And what's the one thing that made you answer the way you did?
Drop it below. One sentence. Nobody here is judging — every man in this room answered no at some point. Me included.
I'll go first in the comments.
Then take responsibility for it and move. Not a plan. One thing today that a man worth following would do. Ten minutes, done, and post what it was. That's a rep. Stack enough of them and the answer changes on its own — not because you talked yourself into it, but because the evidence did.
You are your only limit. Let's do this.
And if you answered no and you've been answering no for a while — that's worth a conversation, not another Monday.
👉 Book the honest conversation: [Book time with Aaron Williams: Self-Trust Starting Point] 15 minutes, you and me. No pitch, no pressure. Where you're at, where you want to be, and whether this is the right next step. I do these myself.
— Aaron
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