Thank you to Shanlee for helping me last night by just being there for me. I am trying to transition my almost 3 year old to her room after co sleeping. Its been a struggle with intense melt downs. Shanlee asks such insightful questions and offers advice to understand what is actually happening. I am so grateful for her support. Her just being there for me helped calm my nervous system and my daughter definitely felt that. First night she slept in her room for almost 6 hours. Thank you so much again!!

- How has decoding your child affected your own healing journey? - What generational patterns are you now ready to break for your children? - How would complete family system healing change your lineage? - What would be possible if everyone in your family had their Human Design honored and childhood wounds healed? I grew up in a “bubble” where certain emotions, needs, or curiosities weren’t fully seen, recognizing my child’s natural energy may help me reconnect to my own. I am ready to break the productivity over joy. Hard work doesnt always lead to satisfaction. Raising my children in alignment with their design so they can be self assured and know their worth. Less conflict in “shoulds” and more room for choices. A family culture where satisfaction, rest, individuality, and joy are normalized. The possibility of raising children who don’t need to spend adulthood unlearning as much—because they grew up being seen and honored as themselves.

Through this 5-day journey, my biggest breakthrough has been seeing my child as a Generator with Emotional Authority who needs space to respond in her own timing. - Activating Awareness showed me the patterns I was missing before — I realized that when I rushed her or made choices for her, she would fight back or melt down. That frustration wasn’t misbehavior, it was a signal that her strategy was being violated. - Empowering Self-Mastery helped me recognize my role in the dynamic. I can slow down, create rhythms, and honor her process. By doing this, I’m modeling patience and self-regulation for both of us. - Willing Connection opened my eyes to how much more cooperation happens when I invite her into the process — like letting her choose when she wants her milk, which book she wants to read, or when she feels ready to go to bed. When I respect her authority, she naturally says, “Let’s go to bed,” instead of resisting me. - Ascending Consciousness connected everything back to my own growth. This journey isn’t just about parenting her differently — it’s about becoming more present, conscious, and attuned in my whole family. 🌟 What I discovered is that my daughter is deeply wise in her own timing, and I am learning to trust her inner guidance instead of overriding it. In the process, I discovered how often I’ve ignored my own Generator energy and forced myself into things, instead of waiting to respond. Our whole family feels the shift. Bedtime is calmer, emotions are respected, and I feel less like I’m battling her and more like I’m partnering with her. Compared to Day 1, there’s less tension, less power struggle, and so much more trust. We’re beginning to flow with each other’s design instead of against it — and that has been the heart of my parenting awakening. ✨ I’ve also realized my own energy and how I handle situations — to pause, reflect, and then respond. This has even helped in my relationship with my husband and our dynamic as we parent together.

Wow so many breakthroughs already. My space is filled with emotional clutter. My daughter only knows the present, not the past. She doesn't understand the pressure or current situation of my relationship with myself and with my husband. I am working on pausing, reflecting, and then responding. Even just saying we are going to pause helps calm my nervous system and she is my mirror. Her bedroom with her table and her chair are a great space, I would like to create a little reading nook that she can sit in. Right now we sit on the rug in the middle of the room. Still working on how to we get her excited about her big girl bed. The shop we own, that needs a drastic change both emotionally and physically. She needs a routine, which comes from me establishing what we are going to do there. She can still run and have fun but she thrives off structure like me. Also having a space for her, where she can go and process emotions. My Generator child is thriving in their new bedtime routine with daily rhythms that include her having control over when she drinks milk and choosing what toys to play with or books to read. This prevents frustration, resistance, and bedtime battles and supports her strategy of responding and emotional authority by letting her reach her own “yes” before transitioning. She feels so much more seen and understood now! I can see how this connects to my parenting awakening story from Day 2 and the patterns I first noticed on Day 1. She now tells me when shes ready for bed!!

My Generator child feels deeply connected when I honor their strategy of responding and respect their emotional authority. When their strategy is violated, I notice frustration, resistance, or emotional outbursts when rushed or pushed into decisions, but now I can respond with patience, giving her time to ride her emotional wave and supporting her in waiting for clarity. This explains so much about my parenting awakening story from yesterday!