@Scott S Hey bud, I totally get where you're coming from! I went through a divorce three years ago with four kids and felt the same way at first. It took me about a year to shake off the negativity, but after that, I started thriving in a brighter future. Welcome to the single dad club!

I'm Kristian, based in Norway. By day, I'm a Director of Service and Aftermarket at an electrical company, but I'm here to dominate the off-market dating scene while balancing life as a single dad to four incredible kids (50% split). Short-term goal (next 30 days): Optimize my Instagram profile with compelling, high-status stories and send 10 targeted DMs for event invitations, aiming for at least three warm introductions to expand my network. Long-term goal (6-12 months): Build a tight-knit group of 5-7 high-value friends for weekly events, creating a social flywheel that leads to a committed relationship with an off-market, high-quality woman (8+ rating) who connects with my vibrant life, kids included.