I think we all saw the video and u can find it on YouTube. My main Question is how, at some point, after the initial non-rationale response do you actually explain there is a nail in the head? Or is the point to just to de-escalate?
this is good stuff, all I've ever been taught is don't say "calm down" "would u like" is better than "can I offer you some" advice too - I see where this is going :)