before and after. finished this morning.

I was in contact with a man for a week or so and asked him if his photos were up to date. He replied yes “2 or 3 years” old. So after a lot of back and forth he agreed to forward a recent photo. As we continued our conversation things went sour when I began asking questions: ie do you have children, ru single, were you married, why did you move? He goes ape shit and hangs up on me! I did text him saying “Obviously we are not a match .. However I find it interesting that as a “journalist” when the tables were turned you hung up on me!” And this is what he replied: “My profession has nothing to do when someone is insulting and disrespectful … please leave me alone.” I don’t know what I said that was such a turn off??? PS never got an updated picture…. Any thoughts?

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One thing I'm really appreciating in this season of life is this: Dating after 50 isn’t about chasing, fixing, or proving anything. It’s about clarity, self-awareness, and choosing connection with more ease and enjoyment ,exactly what this community stands for. At this stage, many of us aren’t looking for more options… We're looking for the right alignment. That might start with: 🌱 Understanding our patterns 🌱 Communicating more honestly 🌱 Letting go of old timelines 🌱 Creating space for something healthier and more fulfilling This chapter isn’t rushed it’s intentional. And when the inner work is done, attraction feels lighter, calmer, and more natural. 💬 I'd love to hear from you: What’s one thing you’re approaching differently in dating or relationships in this next chapter? Let’s share and learn from each other 🤍

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