Struggles Struggle 1: I grew up with the feeling of never being good enough. Not good enough for the things I want in life (βfuck youβ money, living in my own place, etc), the people I want to be in a relationship with, so on and so forth. Not sure where this feeling comes from but I struggle with these thoughts every day. Contrasting Win: In order for me to not feel like shit every day, I actively go out of my way to prove those voices in my head wrong. That voice has taught me that I need to work hard for a very long time to achieve the things that I want in my life - no matter how many failures/rejections I face. __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Struggle 2: I struggle with ADHD which has made it very difficult to stay focused on tasks that I know are good for me long term. It has made doing things that I qualify as βworkβ way harder than it needs to be and makes a simple task that would only take like 30 minutes take me at least an hour (like doing my Day 1 homework) Contrasting Win: Using My Disorder to My Advantage: ADHD has been a bitch for me to focus on tasks that I consider to be work but the moment Iβm able to find a way to turn it into a game and can have fun while doing it, Iβm able to hyperfocus on it for hours without any feelings of burn out. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Struggle 3: I put immense pressure on myself to succeed because if I donβt, I would only be proving to βthemβ that they were right and I was wrong. The idea of only getting to live one life and not being able to live my life the way I want drives me insane and I have this existential crisis at least once every day. Contrasting Win: While the pressure of trying to become the first successful person in my family haunts me every day, itβs that same pressure that forces me to want to better myself and my life circumstances. After all, how fun would life be if you got everything handed to you and you didnβt have to work for it?