YES, is the short answer. We all have different circumstances to heal from and we all have a different end point to get to. What this means to me is how dare we judge others for not being as far along as us or criticize ourselves for not being as far along as others. There can be similarities like realizations, enlightenment and a deeper understanding of ourselves. The capacity per person is not all the same. One of the beliefs that I am currently working on better understanding is that everybody who has been through hard times has a depth that if others have not struggled don’t have. When you explore your emotional range I think that allows certain parts of your mind to be exercised. What do you think about achieving intellectual and emotional depth? Is it through overcoming struggles or can it be also when living a life of ease?