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Love: Decoded

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đŸ«‚How To Make FriendsđŸ«‚
I know this community is called Love: Decoded 💖, but love isn't all we talk about! đŸ—Łïžâœš I strongly believe romantic success 💑 is impossible without social success (i.e., having good friendships đŸ€). Why? Because we learn so much about setting boundaries 🚧, understanding others' needs ❀, having great conversations đŸ—šïž, and so much more! In other words, having friends is like practicing for relationships 🎭. That makes me wonder... How do you make friends? đŸ€” 💬 Share what has worked for you down below! đŸ‘‡đŸ”„
đŸ«‚How To Make FriendsđŸ«‚
1 like ‱ Apr 10
Some of my closer friends came out of shared rough experiences. When I was a missionary I bonded a lot with one girl who was my roommate. We don’t see each other often, but our shared experience really created depth. When I do see her it’s like no time has passed.
What's Your Happy Place?
In this post, I asked you guys to tell me your strategies for making friends. If you haven't responded to that, yet click there and let me know your thoughts. Lord knows we need them. My favorite strategy is something that I call finding your happy place. The simple way to do this is: 1. Make a list of all the things you REALLY enjoy. 2. Ask ChatGPT for places where you can enjoy those things socially 3. Then, the next time you have free time, go there on your own or with a friend who enjoys similar things. WHY THIS WORKS When you are surrounded by people who have similar interests as you, it is so much easier to start a conversation with a stranger. You have an idea about the things that they like, you are either knowledgeable or interested in learning more, and the vibe is just there. Going to a paint & sip or cooking class, even if a bit scary, is going to be more effective than sitting at home. So, question: What is your happy place?
1 like ‱ Apr 10
I have done the above idea. I have a list now. When I am on summer break I am planning on doing some of the things on my list. First I want to start with a flower arranging class or outdoor market. 🌾🍇đŸ§ș
Today's Call
Hey! Today's call is going to be more of a hangout session rather than a guided discussion. We'll be checking in with how everyone's weeks have been and if you have something you'd like to discuss with our other members, feel free. See you all (especially our regulars @Kabrina Perkins @Kelsey Sullivan @Christina Stowell @Andrew Mills ) then!
Today's Call
0 likes ‱ Apr 6
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🐟Good Date, Bad Date, Red Date, Blue Date🐟
Hey @Kabrina Perkins , I've got a few questions for your regarding dates: 1. What was the best date you've ever gone on and what made it the best? 2. What was the worst date you've ever been on and what made it the worst? 3. What advice would you give us guys who want to plan better dates? Thanks in advance 🙂
🐟Good Date, Bad Date, Red Date, Blue Date🐟
1 like ‱ Apr 1
@Reveca Tomas that’s a wild experience! Never know these days! Your subconscious knew on that first date lol.
2 likes ‱ Apr 2
I would love to talk about my advice and best date on a future call.📞 But I’ll go ahead and talk about my least favorite date. So this guy randomly invited me to a movie in college. He got lost, and took me to the wrong theater. We ended up waiting in an empty theater for forever waiting for our movie to start. It was a stressful movie, not my type. And then at the end he poured his whole popcorn bucket on the ground. He said that’s just what you do in a theater. I was mortified. Then either during that date or the next day he said he wanted to play a game. I didn’t know what he was gonna try to pull. He said, “what, i was gonna try to kiss you, it’s not like I was gonna r@$% you.” We never talked again. He was a real winner. đŸ„‡ đŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™€ïž
Ladies... What Could We Do Better?
Hello Gals... As you probably know, this community has shifted towards focusing mainly on helping men improve with dating and building healthier, long-lasting relationships. I'm currently building a guide for the guys and I want it to be the best one on the platform. If there's anyone who know how guys are messing up, it's probably not us. Instead, it's you. As a result, I'd love your feedback on just a couple simple questions 1. What are the biggest things that keep you from going on a first date with a guy? 2. What are ways that guys mess up, resulting in you not going on the second date? Please give any and all thoughts in the comments below 👇
Ladies... What Could We Do Better?
2 likes ‱ Mar 27
@Reveca Tomas for me, why I like a FaceTime call or phone time is more for safety. I need to know the person is real, and not some old man lol.
2 likes ‱ Mar 28
@Josue Feliciano tone of voice has kinda become a thing for me lol. If their voice is higher than mine, it’s a no go. Maybe that’s shallow of me. 😅
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Kabrina Perkins
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I am a teacher from Maryland. Learning new things in and out of the classroom brings me joy. Let's learn together!

Active 3d ago
Joined Mar 24, 2025
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