If you are reading this, you probably know exactly what it feels like to secretly escape into your dreams of a better life - a life with him or her, who is, unfortunately, completely unaware of your feelings and even worse, perhaps doesn't even know you exist. Because that person is completely unreachable. You might know them from a TV series, social media, a movie or it's a fictional character in a book, but in your heart, you feel like they are the one for you. And so you are riding this emotional roller coaster, swinging wildly between euphoria and despair, hope and agonizing pain. Maybe you’ve spent a long time wondering if anyone could ever truly understand how exhausting that constant “What if…?” loop in your head really is. What if he/she would finally see me? What if I could meet them? What if ... I want you to take a deep breath and hear this: You are not alone with this immense longing in your heart. For a long time, the world hasn’t had a common language for this experience, which is why it can feel so isolating. But there is a word for it: Limerence. But hardly anyone talks about this kinda of love that feels so real, but instead of euphoria, it leaves you empty and with a deep, deep longing. Limerence is a state that pushes you into a painful gap between daydreaming and reality. It makes you feel like your happiness depends entirely on someone who might not even know you exist, or someone you only know through a screen. But here is the most important thing you need to know: This is not "unnormal". Limerence is nothing bad, even though it has been portrayed like this in lots of information spread across the internet or in books. While it can feel like a "trap", Limerence is actually a deeply human expression of your emotional depth. It is often an unconscious wake-up call from your own system. It actually shows you a path back to yourself. And what you are currently missing in your life. And it's not that one person. You are in love with the illusion of who they are and how they make you feel about yourself in your head.

Ever wonder how you can let people know about your Skool community? Feel like you have so much to offer but don't know how to get people involved? Wish there was somewhere you were actually allowed to promote yourself and talk about your offer? Look no further! The Skool Classifieds are the place where you are not only allowed to promote yourself, but you are actually encouraged to do so! Like the Classifieds section of your local newspaper or the Community Message Board at the gym, this is the place to let people know what you do and what you offer. Here's how it works: 1. Invite other Skoolers you know to join the group using your invite link. The more people join, the more people there are to promote to! 2. You can post once a day only. This is to keep the group from getting spammy. If it's spammy, people won't read and you won't get noticed. Post as many days in a row as you want, but please do not post the same thing day after day - mix it up! 3. Make sure you add your post to the appropriate group/heading. Please see below for a description of what each group is for. If you don't see a group that is appropriate, message me. 4. Self-Promotion is what this group is all about, but please do not DM people with your offers. You will be removed from the group for doing this. 5. Introduce yourself in this thread, and then scroll up and find someone you have something in common with. Reach out. There are some really amazing people here! 😉 This is a place for us to support each other for our mutual benefit. Hate speech, offensive language, or general negativity will be deleted, and you will be removed from the group. *Please check out this post for more tips on how to get great results from your posts. And also this post by one of our own community members who has had great success growing his group through the CLASSIFIEDS.