Have you seen this? I thought it’s fascinating What do you think? https://youtu.be/BFul90BFjGc?si=hR-7zsoJ4JNwWgV0

There is a specific kind of disorientation that happens when you realize you are still living your life according to a schedule that doesn't belong to you anymore. I remember the day it hit me: I was still performing the role of the "good partner" long after the audience had left the building. It was exhausting carrying a version of myself that no longer fit the room I was standing in. When a relationship ends, the "job description" you lived by for years often vanishes overnight. The roles you played—the caretaker, the buffer, the secret-keeper—don't have a home anymore. It is natural to feel shaky when the structure you built your identity around is gone. It’s like being a musician who has spent a lifetime playing someone else’s sheet music, only to have the pages taken away. Now, you’re sitting in the silence with your instrument, realizing you have to find your own melody for the first time. It’s okay to feel out of tune while you’re learning what your own song actually sounds like. This season isn't about chasing a new identity or forcing "positive vibes." It’s about the quiet, honest work of deciding which parts of your old self actually feel like home, and which ones were just heavy coats you wore to keep someone else warm. What is one "role" you played in that relationship that you are finally ready to resign from? https://youtu.be/tx17RvPMaQ8?si=iQHMXwpgpl0ufskp

What is behind a successful community? How is community culture established, maintained and flourishing? YouTube Spotify "Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value." - Albert Einstein♓️✨🧜‍♀️🌈🍉 💖We are hosting a watch party w Q&A in the Tribe w this on Friday at 10am pacific.💖 Why should you listen to me? While I take care of 2 communities - a smaller one (a little over 300) and a bigger one (a little under 10000)... And both are thriving!!! And both got the star! AND kept the star! Since its getting! ✨I cannot take the credit for them! ✨ It’s a mutual synergy of togetherness where everyone contributes! How?? STRONG COMMUNITY CULTURE. And that’s what I explain in my talk w @Dinka Salvador & @Brandon Decremer. Evolution Summit - made by Skoolers w ❤️ for Skoolers!

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Hi Tribers! I am sure you have experienced this - whether in school or in life or with a romantic relationship (dating the same person in different body? Sounds familiar?? lol) or playing a musical instrument… Lessons return (or repeat) if we have not learned them the 1st, 2nd or heck even 300th time… I thought I have learned my lesson of not making assumptions. And logically my thought process was like - I have worked many years on myself to not judge book by its cover - to not judge others - as when we first meet someone - we don’t know their circumstances, upbringing and internal battles. So for me - not being judgmental ALSO meant not make any assumptions. Logical… right? WRONG!!!! And this morning I learned this. Hers is what happened. Our Triber @Dinka Salvador had reached out to me several weeks ago, inviting me to speak in a summit. I thanked her for thinking of me and said yes. The summit is in January so I have left going over any details that are needed for the next couple of days… I found out today that the speakers’ spots were filled within 3 days (a few weeks ago) and I needed to register myself. Duh 🙄 Either my blondness or my business didn’t allow me to see it this way. Most likely is a combo of both. What I know now is: 1. I ASSUMED that just because I am integral and do as I say, people automatically know it. Wrong!!! Lots of people say all kind of stuffs all the time… and don’t follow through 2. I ASSUMED that me saying yes to Dinka it’s a done deal and I am scheduled. Wrong! Dinka, as she shared w me earlier, would never do such a thing out of respect!! So you see how this is a lesson that I needed to learn? Don’t assume anything!! To be honest I was not even aware I was assuming! I will be more mindful in the future and ask myself often - “am I assuming things here?” What’s your take and experience on assuming?