@Lori Saulibio that distance is gold

@Adriann Wofford thanks, Adriann! glad it landed 🙂

@Lori Saulibio fixed vs growth mindset

@William Gikandi I love how you're describing it as a state, and that is so accurate. Thanks for that. For me, I like to use the word “identity” or “personas.” When you say, “A part of me wants to eat chocolate, but a part of me wants to maintain a diet,” this way I can say there are two identities or two sub-personas. Each persona or identity is complete and comes with a state, beliefs, behaviors, and everything. In psychology, it's commonly accepted that the idea that there's one personality for one physical human body is a myth. One physical human body actually has many personas, masks, sub-personas, or identities. They call them parts. You can think of each part as a complete "person" that comes with that person or persona's state, beliefs, behaviors, actions, and everything. Sometimes, if you notice, you switch between parts or personas throughout the day, and that's what I think it means: switching state. When you're in one state or one persona, the thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors of the others are not available to you. I think that's also why high-performance athletes and sportspeople build and use alter egos. They can quickly snap out of their everyday persona or set of personas and snap into this one alter ego or persona that has been custom prepared for playing that particular sport.

@Tony Iverson whats yours?

Wow, thanks for sharing this. Looks like a really great resource. Thank you, Nathaniel.

You know, that actually makes sense to me, what you've just said. Can I ask, in your mind, where does vibrational harmony fall into this picture? You know the saying: “Success is not something you get; it’s a person you become.” Another way to say it is that I have seen it mentioned in relationship circles: you have to become the kind of person you wish to date. In other words, if you want to have a healthy relationship with somebody who has a stable and secure attachment to themselves (and therefore a stable and secure attachment to you), you also have to be the kind of person who has a stable and secure attachment to yourself in the first place. Otherwise, the visualization itself won't work because the vibrational harmony or resonance is not there. I don't know if that makes any sense? What do you think about that?