Yesterday I had a plan. A real one — dinner sorted, a load of washing on, ten minutes to myself before pickup. By 3pm none of that existed. Dinner became "whatever's in the freezer," the washing sat there judging me, and my ten minutes became answering the same question four times in a row. It's never one big thing that tips it over — it's just... everything, all at once. And something always has to give first. So tell me — when life gets overwhelming, what's the first thing to go out the window for you? - 😴 My sleep (I'll just be tired forever, it's fine) - 🥗 Actual meal plans (hello, cereal for dinner) - 🧘 Any form of "self-care" — first thing to get cut - 😤 My patience (sorry not sorry, kids)