@Sarah Dawkins Do you have a link so we can read your book description?

My Liturgy of Easy Walks: Reclaiming Hope in a world turned upside down After facing sudden loss of mobility after brain surgery to save her life, Marjorie has now regained much of her ability to walk (with support). Writing about her outings and lessons learned along the way are at the core of this story. She captures the kind of moments so many of us fail to notice while never forgetting to savor the miracle of being alive. These short meditations (liturgies) in this topical memoir invite you to take a welcome respite from a world turned upside down. The “easy walks” of the title reference both the Easy Walks book series she continues to add to as well as the small and larger insights she shares with us. https://www.amazon.com/My-Liturgy-Easy-Walks-Reclaiming/dp/B0BT76MVNN

Businesses have a "complaints department" (whether they really deal with complaints or not) but no "Whining department' that I have found yet. My kids heard often, "When I hear whining I stop listening." Once they heard my reminder, they might have said the same thing, but that whining tone? Gone--they wanted me to listen to them. There are, as you mentioned, things in our lives that are not "fixable." When I hear someone talking about those aspects of their lives and then they say, "I shouldn't complain," I often respond, "Oh, I always feel better when I complain," Then they laugh. Which was my intent. So there is complaining, whining, and simply dealing with things we cannot change. Not sure what you call that last thing, but I am pretty sure it's a theme in the book I wrote (which I will post in the "Books" section)

@Michael Whitehouse indeed. Looking forward to more thoughts on the subject.

Love shallow rabbit holes--down and back again without getting lost